Heather Thom Breakup Counsellor

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Get my insights around breakups, self-love, moving on, and everything in-between.

How to Build a Strong Relationship with Yourself After a Breakup

How to Build a Strong Relationship with Yourself After a Breakup Let's talk about one of the most important relationships you'll ever have - the one with yourself. In our fast-paced world, it's easy to neglect our own needs and desires in favour of pleasing others....

Why Most Couples Breakup And How To Avoid It

Learn why most couples breakup and what you can do to avoid it in your relationship. By the end of this video, you’ll also learn a really easy way of communicating your feelings that works!

Want A Successful Friendship With Your Ex?

This is a common question that I get asked quite often in my counselling sessions. The answer can be tricky depending on what type of breakup you are going through, but in certain cases being friends with an ex can be possible. Keep watching to see what rules you...
How Breakups Change Your Life (For the Better!)

How Breakups Change Your Life (For the Better!)

How Breakups Change Your Life (For the Better!) Today, I want to dive into a topic that touches the depths of our hearts: breakups. I know, I know, they can be tough, but hear me out. Breakups have the incredible ability to reshape our lives, propelling us toward...

5 Surprising Signs You Need Counselling After a Breakup

5 Surprising Signs You Need Counselling After a Breakup

5 Surprising Signs You Need Counselling After a Breakup Breakups can be a tough pill to swallow and it's normal to feel all kinds of emotions like sadness, anger, or confusion when a relationship ends. However, if these emotions are sticking around and interfering...

Rebuilding your Self-Esteem After a Breakup (in 5 Easy Steps!)

Rebuilding your Self-Esteem After a Breakup (in 5 Easy Steps!)

Rebuilding your Self-Esteem After a Breakup (in 5 Easy Steps!) Although breakups can be difficult, they can also provide opportunities for personal development and recovery. One of the most important aspects of healing after a breakup is rebuilding your self-esteem....

Navigating an On-again, Off-again Relationship

Navigating an On-again, Off-again Relationship

Are you currently in an on-again, off-again relationship? It's not uncommon, and it can be frustrating and exhausting. Going through a cycle of breaking up and getting back together, also known as relationship cycling, has been linked to emotional distress, such as...

5 Essential Breakup Tips for Anxiously Attached Women

5 Essential Breakup Tips for Anxiously Attached Women

5 Essential Breakup Tips for Anxiously Attached Women Honey, let me tell you, ladies with anxious attachments have interesting way of dealing with their breakups... Let's talk about something that many of us have experienced: the painful process of going through a...

Heal your heart in 30 days!

After the end of a relationship, it’s normal to feel sad, angry, lost, or confused.  Heal Your Heart in 30 Days is a guided journal that gives you a safe and non-judgmental place to explore your thoughts and feelings after your breakup.

What's included...

❤️ 30 Powerful Journal Prompts to process your breakup and start healing

❤️ A “List of Emotions” to help you express yourself

❤️ 30 Day Mood Tracker to track your progress 

❤️ Self-Care Planner to prioritize your healing

❤️ A list of “Breakup Boundaries” to live by

❤️ 3 fun and motivational colouring pages to keep you occupied

❤️ And so much more!

Heal Your Heart in 30 Days Guided Journal by Heather Thom Breakup Counsellor

See what everyone is raving about!

I’m so happy I found this journal randomly! I’ve been struggling with my recent breakup and this has helped me get through it. I look forward to answering the questions every day and the coloring pages are a fun touch. I wish I found this years ago!

Amanda S.

This journal is lovely and I have learned a lot about myself. I printed it out and wrote in the pages, it’s super easy and very thought provoking. Highly recommended!

Bethany D.

AMAZING journal! I love the colours and formatting of the journal and the questions were really reflective. The questions did more than help me get over my ex, it also helped me think about what I want in my future.

Emma C.