Heather Thom Breakup Counsellor

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5 Essential Breakup Tips for Anxiously Attached Women

5 Essential Breakup Tips for Anxiously Attached Women Honey, let me tell you, ladies with anxious attachments have interesting way of dealing with their breakups... Let's talk about something that many of us have experienced: the painful process of going through a...

Should You Get Back Together With Your Ex? | 4 Questions You Need To Ask Yourself FIRST

Wondering if you should get back with your ex? Watch this video to learn the 4 important questions you need to ask yourself first before you make this decision. 

WARNING! 6 SIGNS You’re in the WRONG Relationship

Deep down, you probably already have an idea if you’re in the wrong relationship. If you’re having doubts about your relationship and you find that you’re convincing yourself that it’s fine, it’s probably not. I want to share with you the top 6 signs that this...
How to Use Gratitude to Move on From a Breakup

How to Use Gratitude to Move on From a Breakup

Breakups are never easy. It’s common to get overwhelmed with what went wrong in the relationship that led to the split. Thoughts about what we did to contribute to the demise and focusing on all the things our partner did wrong begin to overtake our thoughts. As a...

How to be Alone (and Why it’s Important)

How to be Alone (and Why it’s Important)

Firstly, being alone is a good thing. We don't need to constantly spend our time with others or have outings booked back to back. Being alone does not reflect poorly on who we are or our likability. Getting comfortable spending some quality time with yourself is...

Proven Tips to Manage Stress

Proven Tips to Manage Stress

Hey, lovely! Listen up, because this is important. Stress management isn't just some "nice-to-have" luxury. It's a must-have for your physical and mental well-being! When you're stressed, your body goes into "fight or flight" mode, which can cause major health...

How to Be Friends with Your Ex

How to Be Friends with Your Ex

Personally, I think it’s tough to be friends with an ex, but is it possible? Of course, anything is possible. I only recommend it if both parties: 1) Give it Time: To ensure that the two of you are on the right path to a successful friendship, make sure you allow...

Why Closure is Overrated

Why Closure is Overrated

I’ve been taught and professionally trained to teach others the importance of validation and closure of relationships. Now, don’t get me wrong, I know that it’s important in order to feel heard and understood and it’s perfectly normal to want closure from your ex. But...

5 Phases of a Breakup

5 Phases of a Breakup

We’ve all been there. At least, we all had one rendition of this experience. It’s not something that we wish to experience more than once and it sure as hell doesn’t get any easier. Chances are is we’ll bounce from one stage to another, particularly between the first...

Heal your heart in 30 days!

After the end of a relationship, it’s normal to feel sad, angry, lost, or confused.  Heal Your Heart in 30 Days is a guided journal that gives you a safe and non-judgmental place to explore your thoughts and feelings after your breakup.

What's included...

❤️ 30 Powerful Journal Prompts to process your breakup and start healing

❤️ A “List of Emotions” to help you express yourself

❤️ 30 Day Mood Tracker to track your progress 

❤️ Self-Care Planner to prioritize your healing

❤️ A list of “Breakup Boundaries” to live by

❤️ 3 fun and motivational colouring pages to keep you occupied

❤️ And so much more!

Heal Your Heart in 30 Days Guided Journal by Heather Thom Breakup Counsellor

See what everyone is raving about!

I’m so happy I found this journal randomly! I’ve been struggling with my recent breakup and this has helped me get through it. I look forward to answering the questions every day and the coloring pages are a fun touch. I wish I found this years ago!

Amanda S.

This journal is lovely and I have learned a lot about myself. I printed it out and wrote in the pages, it’s super easy and very thought provoking. Highly recommended!

Bethany D.

AMAZING journal! I love the colours and formatting of the journal and the questions were really reflective. The questions did more than help me get over my ex, it also helped me think about what I want in my future.

Emma C.