Heather Thom Breakup Counsellor

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Get my insights around breakups, self-love, moving on, and everything in-between.

How To Move On When Someone Ghosts You

Has someone ghosted you? Do you know how to get closure after being ghosted? It's a tough situation because there are a lot of unanswered questions. Being ghosted not only brings up feelings of confusion, but also rejection. That's why it's important to know how to...

How to Breakup with Someone you Love

Breaking up with someone you love is one of the hardest things you can do. Whether the relationship was short or long, mutual or one-sided, the pain and confusion can be overwhelming. However, sometimes it's necessary to let go in order to grow, to honour yourself,...

Rebuilding your Self-Esteem After a Breakup (in 5 Easy Steps!)

Rebuilding your Self-Esteem After a Breakup (in 5 Easy Steps!) Although breakups can be difficult, they can also provide opportunities for personal development and recovery. One of the most important aspects of healing after a breakup is rebuilding your self-esteem....
Communication Tips for a Stronger Relationship

Communication Tips for a Stronger Relationship

As a breakup counsellor, I've seen firsthand how communication plays a pivotal role in building and maintaining healthy relationships. I've also seen how poor communication can lead to ongoing issues, create resentment, and even a breakup. Speaking your mind in your...

How to Build a Strong Relationship with Yourself After a Breakup

How to Build a Strong Relationship with Yourself After a Breakup

How to Build a Strong Relationship with Yourself After a Breakup Let's talk about one of the most important relationships you'll ever have - the one with yourself. In our fast-paced world, it's easy to neglect our own needs and desires in favour of pleasing others....

How to Set Healthy Boundaries (Without Feeling Guilty)

How to Set Healthy Boundaries (Without Feeling Guilty)

How to Set Healthy Boundaries (Without Feeling Guilty) Let's be real, setting boundaries can be tough, but it's essential to protect your mental and emotional well-being. So, whether you struggle with saying no or find yourself overwhelmed by the demands of others,...

How to Breakup with Someone you Love

How to Breakup with Someone you Love

Breaking up with someone you love is one of the hardest things you can do. Whether the relationship was short or long, mutual or one-sided, the pain and confusion can be overwhelming. However, sometimes it's necessary to let go in order to grow, to honour yourself,...

What to Do When you Feel Stuck

What to Do When you Feel Stuck

It can be easy to feel like we're in a rut when we go through the daily routines of life. We wake up, we go to work, we get stuck in traffic, we come home, we drown ourselves with Netflix and Instagram, we go to bed. Wash. Rinse. Repeat. It may not seem like it's a...

Heal your heart in 30 days!

After the end of a relationship, it’s normal to feel sad, angry, lost, or confused.  Heal Your Heart in 30 Days is a guided journal that gives you a safe and non-judgmental place to explore your thoughts and feelings after your breakup.

What's included...

❤️ 30 Powerful Journal Prompts to process your breakup and start healing

❤️ A “List of Emotions” to help you express yourself

❤️ 30 Day Mood Tracker to track your progress 

❤️ Self-Care Planner to prioritize your healing

❤️ A list of “Breakup Boundaries” to live by

❤️ 3 fun and motivational colouring pages to keep you occupied

❤️ And so much more!

Heal Your Heart in 30 Days Guided Journal by Heather Thom Breakup Counsellor

See what everyone is raving about!

I’m so happy I found this journal randomly! I’ve been struggling with my recent breakup and this has helped me get through it. I look forward to answering the questions every day and the coloring pages are a fun touch. I wish I found this years ago!

Amanda S.

This journal is lovely and I have learned a lot about myself. I printed it out and wrote in the pages, it’s super easy and very thought provoking. Highly recommended!

Bethany D.

AMAZING journal! I love the colours and formatting of the journal and the questions were really reflective. The questions did more than help me get over my ex, it also helped me think about what I want in my future.

Emma C.